Coleen says

I THINK it’s probably down to a bit of envy and, if you’re aware of that, then you can manage it. Sometimes people don’t want to hear about other people’s successes because it makes them scrutinise own lives, and their own insecurities start rising to the surface. Perhaps you make them feel a bit dull!

It’s their issue, however, I understand you wanting your partner’s friends to like you. You don’t have to completely change yourself, but perhaps just try to be more self-aware and sensitive to others and their circumstances.

You could always mention to your girlfriend that you’re worried her mates don’t like you – she might give you some feedback or just tell you not to worry about it.

The bottom line is, you’re dating her and not her mates.