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DURING a game of truth or dare down the pub, my colleague admitted that she never wears any underwear to work.
Apparently she hates bras and pants because she prefers to feel free and unrestricted under her clothes.
I’m going wild with desire. How am I expected to get on with my tasks knowing that? I’m only human after all. She sits opposite me and others keep warning me that she’s a wind-up merchant and a tease, but I can’t stop fantasising about her.
Knowing that she’s “going commando” does my nut in. I never fancied her before this stunning revelation, but now she’s all I ever think about. I’m obsessed.
I can feel this powerful electricity emitting from her body.
I think about her every time I have sex with my girlfriend. I can barely speak to her without tripping over my words and PRESS 1 for GENERAL COUNSELLING for all personal and relationship difficulties PRESS 2 for SEXUAL GUIDANCE for all men’s and women’s intimate problems making myself sound like a complete muppet. What am I going to do?
JANE SAYS: You’re going to rise above this provocation and be professional.
You’re going to have to get on with your work. Earn your salary and put your colleague’s clothing habits out of your mind.
If she doesn’t feel comfortable wearing underwear, then that’s her call.
Personally, I suspect she’s winding you up. Do other people in your office often make a habit of discussing their underwear choices in front of you?
The bottom line is that you’re there to work. If this colleague is deliberately going out of her way to embarrass or distract you, then talk to your boss about it.
Call me an old spoilsport, but perhaps a bit less flirting and a lot more focusing should be the order of the day?
I can’t imagine that your girlfriend would be the slightest bit amused by your problem.