WILD EX-WIFE IS AN OLD SLAPPER
EVERY few months my parents go on a cruise. In between my grandparents fly out to their place in Spain. All are loaded with cash to spare.
It’s not fair that I’m struggling, while they live in massive houses. They were successful when properties were cheap and jobs were plentiful.
I earn the minimum wage working in a supermarket. I don’t have a car and can’t scrape together the deposit for a bedsit.
I’ve had handouts from the folks over years, but it’s just not enough.
I need a major injection of cash to kick-start my life.
I said this at a recent family party and it went down like a lead balloon.
My mum told me to stop begging or she’ll cut me out of her will. They expect me to wait until they all die to inherit, but I could be nearly 60.
MY sex-mad ex-wife is embarrassing me.
The first thing she did after our divorce was organise a massive “I’m rid of him” party for all of her gobby mates.
She had a rude cake, a male stripper and loads of booze.
The whole sordid event was plastered all over social media, which I felt was both tacky and disrespectful towards me and my family.
Now she’s proudly single and behaving like an old tart.
She’s joined a gym and had a few bits of plastic surgery done.
Whenever I see her out in town she’s invariably wearing the shortest skirts, the highest heels and the most revealing tops.
Fling
She thinks she looks so hot – I think she’s a disgrace. People are laughing at her.
In the past few months, she’s bounced from one bed to another. She even had a brief fling with a 21-year old mate of my son’s.
At the moment she’s bedding a guy who I wouldn’t trust with my pet rat.
My mate used to work with him and he’s sly and untrustworthy.
He says terrible things about her behind her back and is obviously only with her for what’s left of her settlement money.
Apparently, she gushes to mates about the fantastic sex they’re having but she’s coming across as desperate and pathetic.
Yet, when I tell her sister (who I work with) that I’m worried, I get told to mind my own business.
My ex used to be so upright and, well, normal. Now she’s living and loving like a slut – and I just can’t respect that.
My two sons are grown up and live abroad. They constantly tell me to wind my neck in, but how can I when the woman I still have feelings for is out of control?
Thank goodness she and I never made babies together.
JANE SAYS: If you have to wait until their wills are read before you get any cash, then so be it.
Maybe your parents and grandparents did grow up in a golden era, but they must have worked hard to get where they are today.
Be thankful for anything they do for you, because your greed and bitterness are very unattractive.
Clearly you don’t think that life is fair, but whoever said it was?
Grow up and make the best of your situation.
Ask the people you work for about your prospects. Your folks may just respect you for getting stuck in and think of rewarding you accordingly. JANE SAYS: Your adult sons are absolutely right. Your ex-wife is currently off the scale.
She’s in the fast lane and doesn’t want to get off.
No doubt she’s telling anyone who’ll listen that she’s never felt more vibrant, sexy or free in her life. Step back and accept that it’s up to her how she behaves.
You may not approve of her boyfriends or her lifestyle, but she doesn’t have to answer to you.
Of course you care, because you and she share a history, but she must be left alone to make her own mistakes. If she wants to talk to you, then let her come to you when she’s good and ready – only I wouldn’t hold your breath.
The way I see it is she has moved on and now you must too.
Stop discussing her with her sister, resist the urge to look at social media and find new places to hang out. In other words – get a new life. You openly describe her as desperate and pathetic, but you’re not coming across as much better yourself.
Of course you’re bitter and upset. Your marriage came to an end. I suspect the divorce was painful and very stressful, but all of that is behind you now.
Your ex-wife can paint her backside blue and swing from the rafters if she wants to. What do you care?