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MY new girlfriend doesn’t like me seeing her naked. I’m not allowed to touch any part of her naked body either.

We only have sex in the missionary position with all the lights out. She gets into bed while I’m in the bathroom. I then have to find my way in the dark. Putting my tongue in her mouth is taboo too.

I like her but find this all most weird.

JANE SAYS: I predict you’re going to tire of this bedtime performance very soon. Your new girlfriend has to understand that this is unsatisfying and unusual. Is she ashamed of her body? Does she have problems with stretch marks or scars?

Insist on the truth and more openness away from the bedroom. I suspect she has a lot of unresolved issues.