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JUST two weeks after moving in with me, my boyfriend disappeared for three days. He claimed his nan was ill.
Then another girl stopped me in the street. She said that my bloke had been at her house.
She bragged that they had brilliant non-stop sex and he was the best she had ever had.
She sneered that I shouldn’t ever believe a single thing he says. I confronted him and he claimed that she was obsessed and mad. Now our relationship is on track.
Our sex life is fantastic. We make passionate love all the time and he’s amazing. But I’m still struggling to trust him.
The other day someone told me that he has been sending naked pictures of himself to other girls.
Again, he said that it was all rubbish. I genuinely thought that he loved me, but now I don’t know where I stand. I’m PRESS 1 for GENERAL COUNSELLING for all personal and relationship difficulties PRESS 2 for SEXUAL GUIDANCE for all men’s and women’s intimate problems worried that he’s getting up to all sorts of things behind my back.
JANE SAYS: I suggest you take the upper hand and explain to your man that you can’t – and won’t – play these kind of mind games.
Either he’s with you – 100% – or he’s not. If he’s not committed to your relationship, in the way you’d like him to be, then you must put yourself first.
Sadly, this situation doesn’t look too good from where I’m sitting, from disappearing for three days straight after moving in with you to reports of him sending pictures to other women. He’s not what you might call solid or dependable, is he?
Look, you know him best and you know what your gut is telling you.
If he is a chancer and a cheat, then you owe it to yourself to kick him out and start again. If he is sleeping with other women, then you need to get your sexual health checked out too.