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I’VE just found out my girlfriend had several abortions before meeting me. Why did I have to hear this shocking news from a mate?

My girl says she was planning to tell me when the time was right. But what else could she be hiding?

Now she’s accusing me of putting pressure on her. Can I love someone so secretive?

JANE SAYS: Calm down and take a minute to think. Don’t be too quick to condemn her, because you don’t know what she might have gone through as a younger woman. She doesn’t have to justify herself to you or anyone else.

You’ve got to step back, apologise for being insensitive and respect her position.

Remember that your trouble-making friend cannot possibly know the full story and could be out to cause waves.