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PASSIONATE sex with my neighbour has got me in a spin.
A couple of weeks ago he got so drunk with his ex-partner, that his current wife refused to let him in the house.
He was banging on the front door for ages before he eventually staggered over to my place and begged to sleep on my sofa.
I literally threw a spare duvet over him and went to bed.
In the morning I was woken by him offering me a mug of tea.
One thing led to another and I ended up inviting him to get into bed with me. We snuggled up, kissed and then made love.
It was absolutely fantastic.
Wild
The man set me on fire. He was licky, attentive, sexy and wild. Who knew?
He literally had me screaming the place down with gorgeous orgasm after orgasm. Eventually we looked up and it was 3pm.
He went to check his phone and there were 50 missed calls and messages from his angry wife.
I have a side door to my property so we hatched a plan.
I ordered a taxi and he slipped out into it unseen. He got the cabby to drive around for 10 minutes before depositing him back in front of his house again.
I could hear his wife screaming from my front room and him swearing that he’d stayed the night at a motel. Now I’m desperate to sleep with him again.
I’ve fallen hard for him and can’t think of anyone else. Only he says we can’t start an affair. He’s on his last chance with his wife and if he upsets her again, then he’ll be out on his ear.
But what do I care about that? If she doesn’t want him then I have plenty of space here. I’m desperately lonely and up for sex.
How dare she keep hold of him while he could be doing me so much good? Should I bring things to a head by telling her the truth about us?
JANE SAYS: Tempting as it might be to blow your neighbour’s world apart, I beg you to hold back and retain your dignity. That one night of passion was a mistake. Your neighbour came to you as drunk as a skunk.
Face it, he’s a user. He was actually too disorientated and too mean to find himself a hotel bed for the night so crashed out at your place instead.
In the morning you had sex, but now he’s chosen to go back to her and you have to accept that he is not the one for you.
He’s not trustworthy and he’s not honest. Don’t allow yourself to become bitter or vengeful.
If you have time on your hands, then sit down and plan where your life goes from here. Where can you go to meet single people?
What about clubs, or societies or volunteering work? What are your dreams and ambitions?
If you’re rattling around in a big house, then do you need to think about a move? Above all, keep your doors locked against your drunken neighbour in future.
I wouldn’t put it past him to come knocking again in future, and you cannot allow yourself to be seduced or dragged down by him.
You have to rise above his grubbiness in order to have a better life for yourself.