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I’VE met a guy online. He’s funny, intelligent and like a breath of fresh air.

We’ve not met yet but he’s planning to visit me in October when he comes here for business.

He’s a highly successful entrepreneur and hearing about his beautiful house and jet-setting lifestyle lifts my spirits.

He knows I was very low after my long-term partner left me. He’s even said he can help me with some investments so we can start enjoying a sparkling new future together.

I can feel myself falling for him, but my suspicious sons keep warning me to be careful.

My eldest keeps slagging him off, even though he never bothers to visit me himself.

Based on absolutely nothing, he is insisting my new man must be a crook. Why can’t anyone ever be happy for me? JANE SAYS: Remember that your family only have your best interests at heart.

I understand you’re upset and feel your sons should visit you more often, but presumably they have their own lives now.

I think you should concentrate more on building bridges with them. Your internet pal sounds too good to be true and you know what they say about that.

Alarm bells should always ring whenever money is mentioned.

Anyone can claim to be rich and successful, but it doesn’t mean they are.

Don’t allow yourself to be flattered or seduced by someone who could be a conman. Sadly, too many vulnerable men and women are being targeting by fraudsters these days.

Contact the police if you’re concerned or scared.