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I HAVE to leave the room every time my mum’s new toyboy brags about a new outfit, pair of trainers or piece of gadgetry she’s bought for him.

The lovestruck woman stumps up for anything he fancies. They’ve only been together a few months, but he’s already moved in.

He’s driving her car and has access to her bank account. He no longer works and relies on her for food, clothes and booze money. I also suspect she funds his precious mother too.

My mum is a decent woman in search of love.

She’s too generous for her own good and I fear she’s being fleeced.

She was badly used by my birth father who died in 2015. How do I protect her?

JANE SAYS: Have a quiet word with your mother. Tell her you’re worried. Say that she seems to be shelling out an awful lot of money on her new bloke.

Make it clear you’re not interfering or criticising, just slightly concerned.

She may confess she’s being conned or that it’s none of your business. Either way you’ll have had your say.

If she asks for your help, then give it. Otherwise, respect her position.

It could be she’s actually enjoying being the provider for once, especially if your father hurt her very badly.

Whatever happens, don’t allow this new relationship to come between you two.

It’s vital that you cherish and safeguard your relationship as much as you possibly can.

Keep your eyes and ears open – and report any abuse to the police.