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MY mate can’t keep her hands off my boyfriends.
She attempts to seduce every man I attract.
I’m presently dating a gorgeous fella who I really do think could be “the one”.
We have only been seeing each other for a few months but, already, she has started flitting around him.
She’s texting him behind my back, turning up at his work at lunchtime and responding with flirty messages on social media.
Naked
I could throttle her. Any time I tell her to back off she laughs and calls me paranoid. She says she’s just being friendly, but I know her “friendly” – it has led to numerous rows and fights in the past.
She still swears she didn’t have sex with my ex-boyfriend even though I actually found them in bed together. She claims he was helping her get over a bad migraine. But both of them were naked with the curtains drawn.
What do you make of that? Before that she was over friendly with my married boss (who I’d had a stupid affair with) and snogged my childhood sweetheart too many times to count.
Her problem is that she gets too familiar too quickly. I only have to mention a new love interest and she’s buzzing around like an annoying wasp.
She’s far prettier than I am and could have any guy she wanted, but she’s only ever interested in mine. I just don’t get it. I feel increasingly intimidated by her.
I’ve always put up with her because she (usually) makes me laugh and she’s hard to shake off.
She claims I’ve got nothing to worry about. But then I hear that she and my new bloke have been for a drink without me.
A couple of days ago my new boss mentioned sending me abroad for a few months.
Now I am terrified that she is going to nip in and steal my latest man from under me – just because she can.
JANE SAYS: At the moment, you’re putting up with too much. You’re trying to be a good friend and make allowances for her, but she continues to take advantage of your good nature and walk all over you.
Tell her that contacting your bloke is not on. Out of respect to you, it has to stop now.
Your boyfriend has got to get tough too. He can’t keep burying his head in the sand.
He has to face her and make it clear that he doesn’t want any more calls, texts or visits.
As long as the two of you are consistent and strong, then you’ll weather this threat.
If you’re not, then maybe you Picture posed by models have to ask yourself where your boyfriend’s loyalties actually lie.
I suggest you have a long overdue chat with him about betrayal, loyalty and doing the right thing
He needs to hear how upset you are. My gut feeling is that your tricky mate enjoys stirring things up and making a fool of you.
She’s a nasty character and you owe it to yourself to finally ditch her and move on.
If she’s so pretty and such fun to be around, then why can’t she find partners of her own?
Why does she have to keep stealing yours?