MY new boyfriend is a barker – he howls, yelps and screams during sex.

He’s great – very clever and funny

– but once he gets close to orgasm he makes the most incredible noises.

He has got no bedroom inhibitions whatsoever.

At the moment he is between flat shares so he’s staying at my place for a few weeks.

I share with three other girls and they were cool about it at the start because they all have blokes too. But now they are complaining like stink and I don’t know what to say to him.

No amount of “shusshing” works and the two times I did ask him to tone it down during sex, he didn’t even hear me as he goes into a kind of sex trance when he’s on the job.

JANE SAYS: If you’re old enough to have sex, you’re old enough to talk about it like adults.

You have to talk to your man away from the bedroom or you’re also going to find yourself homeless.

It could be that he gets so lost in the passion of the moment he doesn’t even realise he is howling.

Start by telling him you love his energy and his passion, but he needs to understand others might not share his enthusiasm.

Can he change his ways? Can you arrange to have sex when the others are out? Only you can decide if his vocals are a turn on or an embarrassment. Is this a relationship breaker?