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MY best mate is angry because she didn’t have a better seat at my wedding.

She has sent me several, awful texts blaming me for snubbing her.

I don’t need this. My lovely new husband and I are currently having to live with his parents, which is extremely hard, yet I’m having to deal with her tantrums.

I accept that she and I are close and she believes she has a special place in my life (which she does) but organising my wedding was a nightmare and I did my best.

My family aren’t the easiest people in the world and the in-laws are off the scale. I’m sorry that she was in a pew halfway down the church, but I never meant to insult her.

I just thought she’d join in and enjoy herself. How do I stop her from bugging me? JANE SAYS: At the moment you need to get on with the business of building a new life.

How dare your friend make a fuss? What’s done is done.You didn’t go out of your way to snub her and it’s rude and wrong of her to hound you now.

You have to tell her that you have too much on your plate for this.

I get the impression she’s someone with a strong sense of self-entitlement. Arrange to meet up with her and tell her she’s being unfair.

She needs to have it pointed out to her that not everything is about her. Do you really need someone as demanding as this, chewing your ear off, when you’ve got so many other things to deal with?