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MY ex’s new partner is harassing me.
The disturbed woman is calling and texting me at all hours of the day and night.
She still thinks I care about him – but I don’t really. She is so paranoid and deeply jealous.
She thinks he is still sleeping with me behind her back and even convinced herself that I’m pregnant with his child.
I just don’t need this. Believe me, when my ex walked out last October, no-one breathed a bigger sigh of relief than me.
To finally be free of that idiot was like all my wishes coming true at once – no more lies, no more torturous mind games and no more rough sex. Brilliant.
Unloved
He hooked up with his new lover just days after telling me I was bringing him down.
I celebrated for days.
But now she is obviously beginning to realise what he is really like.
She doesn’t know where he disappears to for days on end and she feels vulnerable and unloved, just like I did for four years.
The other day I got a delivery of thistles. I’m sure they came from her. I’ve also had dog dirt, condoms and used tissues pushed through my letterbox.
I suspect she gets a kick out of harassing, bullying and stalking me. She keeps calling me and leaving stupid messages.
The other day she really freaked me out when I spotted her standing outside my dad’s house.
My dad is very ill with dementia and he was devastated to see me upset. Now I’m really scared because I just don’t know what she will do next.
I’m not one for making a fuss. There is no point in me trying to reason with my ex because he is not that sort of person.
The last time I saw him in the street he actually suggested a threesome with some woman from down the pub.
JANE SAYS:Your harasser sounds immature and desperate, but nothing gives her the right to stalk and upset you. I don’t care if her relationship with your ex is falling apart at the seams, she needs to back off and leave you alone.
You have got to report this nonsense to the police right now.
She might think she is being terribly clever, but she has overstepped the mark and is way out of line.
Of course you’ve got no proof that the thistles and rubbish came from her, but as you did spot her outside of your father’s house – and have a time and a place – then you definitely have something to go on.
Speak to your bosses, family, friends and anyone else you love and trust and make sure everyone knows what is going on.
Don’t be too proud – or too worried about what others might say about you – to get this wicked woman picked up and dealt with.
You sound like a calm and sensible person but you are not superhuman and don’t have to deal with any of this by yourself.
Hopefully, there will be witnesses, phone records and CCTV footage that proves you are being unfairly targeted.
Keep strong and don’t allow anyone to crush your spirit.