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MY partner doesn’t need to work. He sold his business in 2016 and is now a man of leisure.

The problem is that he sleeps all day, but then comes to life at 7pm when I get back from work.

He expects me to jump in the shower, throw on my glad rags and then go out on the town.

That’s the last thing I fancy after a gruelling day at the doctor’s surgery where I work.

When I turn him down, he rants that I’m boring and no fun. He tries to bully me into giving up the job I love.

The other thing is that he watches a lot of porn and then expects to act out his fantasises on me.

I’m sick of coming home from work to a super horny guy with a wicked glint in his eye.

There’s only so much sex on the stairs that my back can cope with. JANE SAYS: Maybe your man doesn’t need to earn money, but he does need to be gainfully employed in order to be challenged and fulfilled.

What about volunteering work or further education?

He’s clearly stagnating at home all day.

Has he lost his energy and his confidence and would he benefit from seeing his GP?

He needs to respect the fact you have a job you enjoy and aren’t always up for clubbing straight after work.

There’s absolutely nothing wrong with exciting sex in different locations – as long as it’s mutually acceptable.

But to get fired up on porn then pounce on you is out of order.

Talk to him about his behaviour and how he’s wasting his life.

Warn him you’re feeling increasingly degraded and resentful.