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I’M worried about my sister who is recently divorced and out of control. She is having a lot of casual sex with men she meets via a well-known app.

Every time we speak she gushes about her wild sexual exploits with the numerous hunks at her fingertips.

I’ve told her that I don’t approve. I asked her if she ever has sex on a first date and she said: “Of course I do.

“My record is 45 minutes from meeting up for the first time to hitting the sack.”

I’m struggling to respect her for this. I don’t think that having sex without love or commitment is funny or right. Yes, I get it that her ex-husband was unloving and cold.

But what about her sexual health or her safety in general? JANE SAYS: I get the distinct impression that your sister is having the time of her life.

I agree with you – I don’t believe sleeping with strangers is good.

But I’m sure she’d argue that it’s her life and this is her time.

You’ve said your bit. You’ve told her you’re worried and you’ve warned her of the dangers she faces.

Now, as a mature, divorced woman, it’s up to her whether she heeds your advice or carries on mucking around. She’s your sister and you cannot allow this to come between you.

Hopefully, this is just a blip. Once she’s got her madness out of her system, she’ll be calm and reasonable again.

Perhaps she’ll then go on to meet someone she does love and to whom she is willing to make a commitment.