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I’VE always worked in a male-dominated industry and held my own.

But now a new colleague has started to get under my skin and I feel vulnerable.

During a bonding weekend we all got drunk and he told me that he fancied me.

Now I can’t stop fantasising about him. He sits right next to me and just knowing that he wants me in his bed is driving me into a frenzy.

I never fancied him before this shocking revelation, but now he’s all I ever think about. I’m obsessed. I can feel this powerful electricity emitting from his body and it’s so thrilling.

I think about him every time I have sex with my boyfriend. I can barely speak to him without tripping over my words and making myself sound like a complete twit.

What am I going to do? JANE SAYS: You cannot allow this colleague to ruin everything you’ve ever worked for or to bring you down. If sitting next to him is distracting, then ask to move.

Look, we all fancy inappropriate people from time-to-time, but if he’s deliberately winding you up, then you have to put on your sensible head and act.

It could be that he gets a kick out of unnerving you – or even has a professional eye on your position, which he rather fancies for himself.

I suggest you get on with your work, earn your salary and make your relationship at home your priority. If he is deliberately going out of his way to embarrass or intimidate you, then talk to your boss about it.

But what you can’t do is allow yourself to take your eyes off the job in hand. Your career is paying your wages and allowing you to settle your bills, so don’t let anything to get in the way of that.