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ANY time my girlfriend walks in the room the temperature drops by 10 degrees.

She’s become so cold, negative and downright miserable in recent times that she is really beginning to get to me.

Nothing is ever right; not at home, not at work or within her family.

What gets me is that she has a great life.

Our house is nice, her job is well paid and her parents are accommodating in the extreme.

She only has to snap her fingers and they do anything she wants from driving her to the airport to paying off her credit card.

I’ve always been an optimist, but I can feel her dragging me down to her level.

Recently she flipped out in a restaurant at a waitress and I found myself joining in – and that’s not me at all. JANE SAYS: You have to be true to yourself. If you’re not a naturally negative or miserable person, then you cannot allow yourself to be demoralised.

Unfortunately, negativity can be catching. Why has your partner become so down?

Is her health bad? Is her job too much?.

Explain to her you can’t go on like this because you no longer know where you stand.

If she’s depressed then she should see her GP. If her daily grind is upsetting her, then is it time for a change?

However, don’t forget to safeguard your own mental health. If she is in danger of knocking your spirit, then do you need to think about your future plans?