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A FORMER lover has tracked me down and has asked me for one more romp.

She’s getting married on September 15 to a guy who she describes as rich and steady (for which I read dull).

She loves his money and his prospects but feels she needs to get me out of her system before she says: “I do.”

I’m both flattered and conflicted. Yes, of course I want to have sex with her. We were really hot back in the day, but I’m with someone new now.

Also, it took me a long time to get over this ex the first time around. She broke my heart when she dumped me on a whim.

What if I fall for her again and struggle to settle down once she’s left me after our night of lust? My mates say I’d be crazy to turn her down.

JANE SAYS: You know in your heart-of-hearts this isn’t a good idea.

Going backwards can’t be right. You need to think about why you broke up with her in the first place.

She’d had enough and walked away. Now she fancies a cheap thrill before she settles down with her sensible bloke.

But you are not a gun for hire.You’re not a plaything to be used up and tossed aside.

Maybe you two did have good times when you were younger, but that was then and this is now.

If she’s not sure she’s doing the right thing in marrying, then that’s her problem. But how would your current partner like to hear that you’ve been talking to – and flirting with – a former lover?

Ignore your mates and tell this reluctant bride: “Thanks, but no thanks.”