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MY cheating boyfriend has broken my trust and let me down very badly.
He’s admitted to sleeping with at least 30 girls over the summer.
Sometimes he had two a day. He’s just back from Ibiza where he spent his time working at his uncle’s bar.
I was supposed to go with him but had to pull out at the last moment because my mum was ill. Now he’s home and begging me to forgive him. He is terrified because one of his conquests has become obsessed with him.
Apparently this girl flew out three times over three months just to be with him.
Now she’s tracking him on social media and is trying to find out where he lives.
He says he’s really sorry but can he hide out at mine for a few weeks until this bunny boiler calms down and clears off ?
I’m fuming, yet when I argue with him he tries to make out I’m being petty and unreasonable. Am I? Why should I allow this lying rat back into my life, especially as he also thinks he might have picked up a sexually-transmitted infection?
JANE SAYS: Your boyfriend is rattled but you have to hold your nerve.
Do not allow him to impose on you by hiding out in your home.
Back at the beginning of the summer you were supposed to travel out to Ibiza together as a couple. Unfortunately, you ended up being detained at home, but nothing gave him the right to sleep around with three – let alone 30 – other girls.
Now he’s worried about his stalker and thinks he can rely on you. Forget it.
He blew your relationship out of the water the first time he let you down. Now he has to face the consequences of his actions and sort himself out. Tell him that emotional blackmail doesn’t work on you.
If he’s thinks you’re being petty by saying no, then fine. What do you care? Bye.