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MY girlfriend is being childish and unreasonable.
She’s threatening to go out and sleep with 10 strangers or attend a posh sex party to punish me.
She’s furious I slept with my former girlfriend at a wedding party in Ibiza.
My best mate married his childhood sweetheart and my ex was the maid of honour. She and I drank for 12 hours and ended up back in my hotel bed. The sex was dirty, just like old times. I know I made a mistake, but my girl doesn’t have to keep going on about it.
What annoys me is that I told her the truth as soon as I landed back home. I went straight round to her place and confessed all. At first she was calm and blamed herself for not joining me.
But now it’s a very different story. She’s agonised about it and now she’s as mad as hell. I keep telling her she’s being ridiculous, but she’s not letting this go. Meanwhile, my ex has split from her boyfriend and is sexting me again.
JANE SAYS: My gut feeling is that you’re not interested in a monogamous relationship with your girlfriend.
Sadly, as soon as you and she were apart, you slept with an ex. Now that ex is single again and you and she are sexting behind your girlfriend’s back.
Meanwhile, your girlfriend is tearing herself apart by coming up with increasingly ridiculous ways to make you pay. Talk to your girl today and ask her if she believes that you and she have a future.
Have you apologised enough and does she feel she can trust you? If all you’re doing now is point-scoring and tearing each other apart, you need to call it a day.
As for your ex, think back to why you and she split up in the first place.
Would you actually benefit from a period of no girlfriends while you monitor your drinking and sort your head out?