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MY bloke loves porn and accesses it anytime and anywhere.

Recently we were on a busy train going to visit my aunt.

I went to get us a couple of coffees and came back to find him having a huge row with a woman.

She was with two kids and had objected to him looking at smut on his phone – she’d seen his screen and gone ape.

I didn’t blame her. I hissed at him to put it away and he started arguing with me.

He said he wouldn’t be told what to do by anyone.

I was terrified she was going to report him to the guard and have us thrown off. Luckily she got off at the next stop.

I do love him, but I don’t like the way he behaves in public sometimes. Do you think he has a problem? JANE SAYS: There’s an appropriate time for everything.

I don’t think a busy train carriage – with young families present – is the right place for porn.

If I’d been that woman, then I definitely would have screamed for the guard.

What strikes me is that your boyfriend sounds an arrogant and stubborn person.

If he wants to look at porn, then why can’t he do it in private?

If he’s upset a young mum with his behaviour, then why can’t he own up and admit he is wrong?

Ultimately, you have to decide whether you respect and support him.

Does he regularly upset and embarrass you?

Does he do other things that make you cringe and look away?

Surely you deserve to be with someone you admire and trust.

If he has a problem with porn, he needs to be encouraged to see his GP.