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SECRET sex with my mate’s mum is the best.
She’s the naughtiest risktaker I’ve ever met.
She freely admits that life has dealt her some very hard blows.
Consequently she doesn’t care what she does or who she sleeps with now. She’s wild and free and up for anything.
My mate knows nothing of our midnight trysts. Is it wicked of me to nip round to her place after a night in the pub with him?
The problem is that they’re really close and he’s very protective of her after her divorce from his abusive dad.
I don’t know the full story but I get the impression that her ex was violent and cruel. Not only did he spend all of their joint savings on drugs but he also tried to sell their flat from under her.
Twins
Things came to light only when the woman he’d secretly been sleeping with came to her with his twins and asked for money to buy milk.
My lover stormed out with nothing but her handbag.
For a while she was housed in a women-only shelter because her ex kept threatening to come after her. Now she’s settled and working hard in a petrol station, but she’s lost none of her old spark.
She’s 25 years my senior but looks fantastic. Whenever we make love she amazes me with her flexibility and experience. She is intense and passionate and I can’t imagine anyone better.
Sometimes I worry that I’ve fallen too hard and want more than she’s willing – or able – to give. When she holds me in her arms and does her thing she sends me to heaven.
Suddenly girls of my own age mean nothing to me – they seem shallow and giggly and pathetic.
She’s a real woman and everything I want in a long-term partner. Is this wrong?
Recently my mate told me he’ll kill anyone who goes near her, which sent a chill up my spine. JANE SAYS: You’re kidding yourself if you think you can keep this affair a secret for much longer. Sooner or later someone will spot you going into your lover’s home or you’ll say something to trip yourself up.
Of course your friend is protective of his mother considering everything she’s been through, but he doesn’t own her and can’t contrive to keep her on her own for ever.
She is a grown-up and an individual after all. What does she say about a future with you?
Is she happy with the way things are? Does she wish to spread her wings even further and indulge herself with additional lovers too? Or does she see you two becoming an out-and-proud item?
Talk to her about your feelings. If she’s only interested in fun, are you content with that?
As for your mate (her son) I think he’s going to be more annoyed and insulted if he hears about your affair from someone else – or even bursts in and finds the two of you together.
If you and he have been pals for a long time, then doesn’t he deserve the truth, face-to-face from your own lips? Pick your moment and be as sensitive and understanding as is appropriate.