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I WENT away for one night and returned to find my mate had moved her revolting boyfriend into our one-bedroom flatshare.

Now they are in the converted sitting room while I’m in the tiny bedroom – and it’s hell.

He’s unwashed, greedy and rude. He contributes nothing by way of rent, food or help but she thinks he’s fantastic.

She says he’s not costing me anything so I have nothing to complain about.

But the place is owned by a friend of my father’s and now I feel responsible.

I’m tired of them having noisy sex when I’m trying to watch telly. I can’t reason with her because she’s mad with lust.

JANE SAYS: Don’t feel you have to cover for your friend or facilitate her lover.

She waited until you were out of the way before she moved her grubby boyfriend in.

Why should you feel awkward when you’re paying your rent on time and abiding by the landlord’s house rules?

Speak to your father about this situation.

If your friend isn’t capable of seeing sense at the moment, perhaps the landlord will be able to focus her mind?

She may accuse you of being small-minded or disloyal, but what do you care? You and she went into this together.

She can’t simply ride roughshod over you now that she’s found someone she fancies.

This is not a game – this is your life and your current home.