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MY ex girlfriend won’t leave me alone because she wants to know why I dumped her.

I worry that the truth will hurt her. Whenever I’m out with friends she comes up to me and demands to know what she did wrong for me to end it.

When we split, I told her I needed my space but the reality is she bored me to death.

She had no conversation, no sense of humour and was dreadful in bed.

I didn’t need any space at all – quite the opposite in fact – as I started going out with another girl almost immediately.

I know my ex will be crushed if I’m honest, but I’m almost ready to tell her the bare facts just to get rid of her. Dare I go there? JANE SAYS: You obviously didn’t want to hurt your ex.You came up with a lie in order to avoid a scene, but she’s still not gone away.

The problem is that if you snap back with the truth now, then you’ll risk ruining her self-confidence forever – and she doesn’t deserve that.

The next time she comes up to you, ask her for a private chat.

Tell her you’re sorry she’s still upset, but this all has to end because she’s seriously beginning to get on your nerves now.

Beg her to get on with her own life and that the relationship finished because it had run its course.

Warn her that you will consider taking legal advice if she continues to harass you.