NEED TO TALK Too stressed for sex
SCARED HE’LL GET ILL
In Tasha’s bedroom
Aaaaaaaaaaaa!
But two days later
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I CAN’T relax enough sex right now.
My boyfriend has asthma and I’m worried he’ll over-exert himself and get ill. He insists he’s fine. If anything he feels neglected.
He is so precious to me that I’d never forgive myself if he suffered in any way.
Lots of my friends are having sex all day long. They say there’s nothing else to have
Oooooooooooooo!
I haven’t pestered him but I haven’t heard from him yet
Later...
Don’t go!
This time I believe he will to do. I’m jealous that they are feeling so relaxed, but I’m permanently on edge.
My best mate fully expects to be pregnant by Christmas and she’s predicting a massive baby boom.
How come everyone else except me? is so laidback
I must, but I’ll be in touch
I just don’t know where I stand with Kyle
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JANE SAYS: I don’t think anyone is genuinely laid-back at this time.
It’s just that your friends are taking a different approach.
Follow your instincts. If you feel that sex with your boyfriend isn’t appropriate, then show your love in
YOU won’t know where you stand until some other girl turns him down. Then this lothario will turn up on your doorstep.
He knows that you won’t let him down and he can have you when he wants.
Unfortunately, you assume Kyle wants what you want, but he just wants sex, while you want a proper relationship.
Next time he comes sniffing around for sex say “No” to him.
You’ll be instantly more attractive to him. But do you really want a relationship with such a man?
Would you ever be able to trust him if you were actually together properly?
I think you’re worth more than this. He’s a waste of your time.
SAT other ways. Offer kind words and promises.
Reassure him that these are extreme circumstances but you hope – just like the rest of us – for normal service to resume soon.
He needs to understand that he is just as loved as ever, but you’re putting his health at the heart of everything you do right now. gestures,