Lover’s niece has reignited my fire
IT FEELS LIKE I’M 25 AGAIN
IS it wrong of me to be having sex with my partner’s 23-year-old niece who is staying with us?
She was the one who came on to me! She’s currently renting our spare room.
My partner and I don’t have sex and this angel has made me feel like a real man again.
She even thinks we could make it as a proper couple and have kids. I never imagined that I would enjoy such passion and adoration at my time of life.
Ideas
I sold my firm on my 50th birthday and have been knocking around the house ever since.
I do a bit of gardening for neighbours, but my lover says I’m wasting my potential.
She says I’m talented and clever and we could start up a new company together. With her ideas and my business acumen we could set the world on fire.
Her crackling energy and lust for life is infectious. She’s made me believe in myself again.
She should graduate from university next year and then we could really start living our lives, our way. She believes my partner (her aunt) is a lovely woman but I’ve outgrown her.
When we make love I’m in heaven. The passion and the risqué acts make me feel 25 again. Then I feel guilty about cheating on my partner, who has always been loving and loyal.
But loads of blokes leave home for younger models, don’t they?
Maybe this is my time to shine. Maybe I have been squandering my potential and need to challenge myself again?
JANE SAYS: In answer to your first question, my answer is yes. I don’t think you should be having sex with your loving partner’s niece.
I can tell you are infatuated with this woman. She’s enthusiastic and has a million plans. But are you really the man to make all her dreams come true?
I can sense there’s a huge amount of flattery and manipulation at play here.
She clearly has a way with words and is sweeping you along with her energy.
But there’s no denying that she knows you have money.
Selling your business before the lockdown must have been a good move and now you’re ripe for the plucking – or are you?
What are the implications for the whole family? Won’t her parents be shocked?
Does your partner deserve any of this when her only crime was to invite her niece to rent the spare room?
I strongly urge you not to be taken in by flattery or spin. Tell your partner everything so there are no more secrets or lies. Doesn’t she deserve another chance?
Obviously, your lover must leave your home and make other plans regarding her accommodation.
Maybe you and she will get together in the long run, but you mustn’t make any hasty decisions or deliberately hurt those who love and trust you.