Randy older lady offers romp cash
SHE’S SO KEEN TO KEEP ME
MY lover says she’ll give me cash if I keep on sleeping with her.
She’s mentioned sums of up to £200 per night. This is crazy.
She’s so desperate not to lose me that she says she’ll make it “worth my while” to stay. I feel sorry for her because I know that she really loves me, but I need to get on with my life.
Of course her money is tempting but so is striking out on my own terms, meeting other lovers and being my own person.
Horny
She and I have been sexually active since early 2017.
She’s my landlady. I rent a small flat within her main home. She’s a good few years older than I am and we’ve enjoyed some fun times together.
In many ways I credit her with saving my life. I was a scrawny useless lad when I answered her ad. I couldn’t afford the rent and didn’t have any bed linen or towels. I was homeless after my mum moved her new boyfriend in – and he threw me out.
But my landlady/lover took a chance on me.
She introduced me to healthy food, fine wines and good books. She basically educated me but we soon moved from the kitchen table to the bedroom. She was very instructive there too! She’s been married and divorced twice and has a very high sex drive.
For a long, happy time I fitted the bill. I was available, grateful and very horny.
But now I know I have to move on and she’s heartbroken.
She keeps asking if we can do a deal. Would I consider moving out but coming back for (paid) sex? Am I interested in becoming her full-time partner in the main house?
I’m conflicted but know I have to go. The other night she got really drunk and accused me of throwing everything back in her face but it’s really not like that.
JANE SAYS: Throwing money at you isn’t the solution.
Your lover needs to hear that you’ve had an amazing time under her roof – and in her bed – but all good things come to an end.
When you rocked up at her place she kindly gave you a chance. She extended the hand of friendship and, for that, you will always be grateful.
But it was never your plan to stick around forever.
You’re a younger man with dreams and aspirations. This is not about you rejecting her, it’s about you embracing the world and seeing what’s out there for you as an individual.
There can be no hard feelings because you never signed up to her for life.
Unfortunately, if you start accepting her money for sex, then your relationship will be on a totally different footing – and not a particularly savoury one.
Sit down and explain that you have to do this, you have to spread your wings in order to feel truly alive.
If she loves you then she’ll set you free with memories of a job well done.