Super-hot fella’s got nasty streak
HE’S SO RUDE TO HIS KIDS
MY boyfriend’s not very nice to his children or parents – but is lovely to me.
He refers to both of his exwives as money-grabbers and his last partner as “Beelzebub”, but I’m his “Angel”. Should I be worried that he doesn’t have anything good to say about anyone else in his life?
He and I have been together for six months and I can’t fault the way he treats me.
I never have to lift a finger or pay for a thing. Each morning I’m served breakfast in bed and each night I’m treated to riproaring passion.
He’s an enthusiastic and experimental lover and I’ve never known sex like it.
Wicked
We’ve both agreed that I won’t have children with him, but I only have to mention an outfit I like or a place I fancy visiting and he organises everything to my satisfaction.
Some of my friends believe he’s too good to be true but I can honestly say he’s treated me like a princess from day one.
We met online just after Christmas. He made me laugh with his wicked sense of humour. He was just what I needed.
We moved in together quickly and my life has very been mostly blissful. The only chink in the armour is that he hasn’t got a good word to say about the people who went before me. Apparently his parents are reckless and stupid and his kids (19 and 21) are selfish and ungrateful just like their mothers.
The one time I met his children, at his mother’s house, I couldn’t believe how awful he was to them. Sometimes I hear him screaming at one of them on the phone and it sends a horrible shiver down my spine.
JANE SAYS: I suspect you’re enjoying your honeymoon period. If this man makes a habit of blowing hot and cold on people, then enjoy it while it lasts.
I think you’re right to be worried. It sounds as if he has a very strange relationship with the very people he should be closest to.
Do his children really need to be referred to as ungrateful and selfish? Are his parents and ex-wives really all that bad?
It seems odd that he has such an issue with so many different personalities. It has to make me question whether he’s the problem.
At the moment he’s clearly bending over backwards to please and impress you but it all sounds a little too much.
What’s going to happen when the bubble bursts and you inadvertently upset or disappoint him?
You say that you’ve agreed to not have children, but what if you change your mind? Will that be allowed?
If a little voice inside your head is telling you that this guy isn’t what he seems, then listen to it. If you don’t like the way he talks to other people, then remember that could be you in a few months’ time…