NEED TO TALK Rat’s toying with me
SHOCKED BY 10 FLINGS
Emily has gone to the bathroom
Now… where was I?
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MY cheating boyfriend says he doesn’t know how many other women he’s slept with.
The only thing he’s said is: “I’m sorry you found out and that you’re upset.”
He didn’t say: “I’m sorry I did it.” There’s a difference, isn’t there?
I’ve begun to realise that he’s a very arrogant and secretive person. My friend works with him and is convinced
I’m sure Emily was going to call me Richard, then she had an upset tummy which turned into a migraine…
Just there!
…and did I see her last night with someone else…and I thought I heard someone laughing when she rang to say she was ill…
A bit later… that he has slept with and conducted affairs with at least 10 other women.
When I confront him with names and details he just looks right through me.
His attitude is so blasé and disrespectful that it feels as though he is insulting me all over again. Is it really
I really do love Emily…but I’m sure she’s lying to me
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JANE SAYS: Interesting bit of tap dancing by your cheating bloke.
“I’m sorry you found out” certainly isn’t the same as: “I’m sorry I
IT sounds as if Emily isn’t being totally honest with you.
You’ve got to decide what you want out of this relationship before you end up getting hurt.
There’s no way you can have a serious relationship with Emily if you suspect her of cheating on you, so you need to know the truth.
The best thing to do would be to tell her what you suspect and see how she reacts. She might tell you the truth, but will more likely come up with some excuse.
But if she is cheating, will you ever be able to trust her again?
If she does tell you she has someone else it will be up to you to decide whether you stop seeing her or accept that she doesn’t want an exclusive relationship.
But until you know the truth you can’t make any decisions… so have that talk at once.
SAT did it.” He obviously thinks he can ride this one out.
I don’t see how this relationship can survive or thrive.
If he really has slept with 10 other colleagues and you had to find out from someone else, then something has gone very wrong.
Tell him “goodbye” while start your life over again. you