I miss crazy days of wild, edgy sex MY MAN IS JUST BORING
I MISS my crazy younger days and I’m taking my frustrations out on my current boyfriend.
I blame him for the boring life I now lead. Where are the laughs, the drunken exploits and the exciting trips?
I’m still a young woman at heart yet my life has ground to a halt. At least when I was single I could sleep around and have a blast. My ex- boyfriends may not have wanted to commit, but at least they had loads of cash and knew how to show me a really good time.
Now I’m reduced to cooking meals and watching telly and I don’t like it. My boyfriend is endlessly “nice” and considerate but I don’t want that anymore; I want fun and action.
I yearn for wild, edgy sex. I long to dress up and experience drama. Does he really have to be quite so boring and straight?
He lured me into this relationship with promises of fun and great holidays. But we didn’t manage to get away once last summer and I don’t believe he tries hard enough to please and surprise me.
I’ve not had any gifts for ages and he’s even suggested buying me a food mixer as a joint Christmas and birthday present.
I tell you, if he follows through then I’ll chuck the rotten thing out of the window. I want sexy clothes, expensive perfumes and naughty toys not practical gadgets. Who does he think I am, his grandma?
We’re rowing and bickering all the time. He accuses me of being ungrateful and immature while I say that he’s old before his time.
I genuinely feel he’s trapped me with false promises when he can’t actually handle me. How dare he punch above his weight and not follow through?
JANE SAYS: It escaped your
may notice
have but
there’s quite a lot going on in the world right now – and not everything is about you.
Stop for a minute and think about the other people who are going through so much.
Fortunately, your boyfriend is managing to hold everything together in terms of food, bills and mental health, so count yourself lucky. How can you make things better?
I don’t want to sound like an old Puritan, but is this really the time to worry about thrills and spills and missing out on things?
If you don’t want a certain kind of present, then set him
straight so that he waste his money.
There will be fun times ahead, but will you really be interested in reliving your socalled “crazy days” as an older, more experienced woman? I know you are frustrated, we all are, but taking those frustrations out on a partner who is simply trying to be steady, supportive and kind isn’t fair.
Calm down; stop looking over your shoulder and vow to appreciate each new day.
Don’t be too quick to dump a guy who actually sounds solid and rather lovely to me. doesn’t