Cheating girl just can’t help herself
SHE HAS HAD SEX WITH PAL
I DON’T understand why my partner keeps having affairs when she claims to love me so much.
I’m really struggling at the moment. I’ve just found out that she’s been sleeping with my best mate for the past four months.
They only split up last week because of lockdown.
Now she’s moping around like a lost soul because she can’t see him and I’m fuming.
This latest betrayal comes on top of her sleeping with her boss and her brother’s best friend.
In 2018 she went off the rails for several months during, which she drank too much and enjoyed sex with strangers.
One night she found herself in a hotel room with two guys.
They wanted more than she was willing to give so she rang me in a blind panic.
I literally had to drive over in the dead of night to bring her home.
Of course she was embarrassed and blamed the drink, but what other guy would have put up with that?
When challenged about her behaviour she always claims to be sorry and contrite.
She says: “You know what I’m like” as if that’s any kind of defence.
I know she’s a flirt and I know
she gets off on male attention but I’ve lost count of the times I’ve begged her to calm down and take my feelings into consideration.
We first met in 2014 and moved in together within weeks but her selfish actions continue to baffle and confuse me.
One minute she is gushing about how much she adores me, the next I’m wrestling her out of the arms of another guy.
She talks about us getting married and having kids, then goes online looking for players to have cybersex with ( which she insists doesn’t constitute cheating). What is her problem?
JANE SAYS: Sadly it doesn’t seem as if your girlfriend takes you seriously. Despite bending over backwards to try to understand her, she continues to go rogue.
How is enjoying cyber sex with complete strangers not cheating? And how is considering full sex with two guys in a hotel room fair?
I’m sure she was embarrassed the night you drove out to rescue her but why was she even there in the first place?
She can’t charge around like a free agent because she’s supposed to be in a
committed relationship with you. Whatever happened to taking responsibility for her own actions? What about being responsible and kind?
If this lockdown hadn’t been imposed, then would she still be with your friend?
Is she thinking about picking up with him again after December 2?
Unfortunately, if she’s not interested in a new start, then you’ll have to think about going your separate ways.
If she never shows true remorse, then you have to consider your wellbeing.