I’m angry foul ex is living high life NO WAY SHOULD I SUFFER
HOW dare my ex have such a great life now when she was so horrible to me?
She and I were together between 2010 and 2018.
It was, without doubt, the worst period of my life. She and I looked good together but clashed over every little thing. We couldn’t even agree on what kind of food we liked to eat.
I’m quite a gentle, easy going person, while she’s a firecracker.
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Friends and family constantly urged us to split but we were bound by our business. Despite everything, we ran a successful shop and, for a couple of years, made a lot of money. She had the spark and the flair, while I had a good head for paperwork.
But that didn’t stop her bawling me out in front of customers and treating me like dirt at home.
Everything collapsed when I discovered that she was not only sleeping with my best friend but creaming off the profits.
The shop closed and we lost everything. We limped on together at her mother’s house for 18 horrible months before calling it a day.
These days I’m scratching a living but she’s risen like a phoenix from the flames. I hear she’s shacked up with a wealthy man
and living the dream. They ping between town, country and seaside houses and she’s dressing like Victoria Beckham and behaving like a movie star.
As she no longer needs to work she dedicates her time to her charities – like the Queen. How is this fair?
She doesn’t deserve her good fortune. Good things are happening to a bad person and that’s a very bitter pill for me.
JANE SAYS: Galling as it is to see your ex- partner swanning around like royalty, you have to let her go.
Why are you still monitoring
her movements or checking in to see what’s she’s up to? She’s history.
It shouldn’t matter to you if she shaved her head and painted her belly blue.
You and she had eight, tricky years together. For a while your business flew but eventually your relationship crashed and burned.
Now she’s with someone new. Maybe you have to accept that they’re simply better suited than you and she ever were.
It’s vital you stop looking back over your shoulder and start rebuilding your life. You
clearly have skill, talent and a strong work ethic, so why shouldn’t you be living the high life too?
Use your anger and resentment to drive yourself forward. Instead of wasting your energy thinking about your ex, learn from her example and rise again.
I very much doubt if she’s worrying about you, so accept that this chapter of your life is finally over.
Mark her down to history and mentally wish her well.
Only by freeing yourself will you be able to realise your full potential again.