Threesomes have led to stalker hell
FREAKY WOMAN IS A PEST
MY threesome fun has turned nasty because a wife has fallen in love with me.
I never asked for, nor encouraged this. I’m a single girl living in a tiny village.
This woman has become obsessed. She’s sending me love letters. She’s telling me she can’t cope without me and wants more sex. I’m freaked out.
I don’t really fancy her or her dull husband. I only had sex with them because I was bored. Now she is knocking at my door at all hours begging me to let her in.
Swapped
She’s offering to leave her husband, give me money and even become my slave.
I moved here at the start of lockdown just to get away from my annoying ex-boyfriend. Now I’ve swapped him for an annoying love-sick neighbour – I can’t win.
Catching my ex in bed with my sister killed my love of city living.
I’d returned home early from work to pick up my laptop.
I opened my front door to find clothes all over the hall carpet.
The two of them were in my bed playing with sex toys. I stormed in to find him tied to the wrought iron frame and her pleasuring him. It’s a sight I’ll never unsee. I stormed out.
A week later I moved into my current home in sleepy hollow and vowed to lead a more sedate life. But then I got lonely and started messing around on the internet. I hooked up with a few couples and had a laugh.
But then, bizarrely, the pair who live over the road popped up as players. They said they’d be interested in hooking up.
The resulting sex was fine – nothing special. But now I’m frightened I’ll never enjoy the normal, stress-free life I crave.
JANE SAYS: If your female admirer was bored and sexually frustrated, then you sweeping into her village life – and her bed – must have been like a blast of fresh air.
Now she wants more, but if you’re not flattered then you have to be firm but fair.
She has to hear that you aren’t interested in taking this liaison any further and that there won’t be any more intimate moments at all.
You’re sorry if wires have got crossed, but if she’s no longer happy or satisfied in her marriage, that’s something she needs to speak to her husband about.
You say that you’re frustrated because “bad things” seem to happen to you, but you have to take responsibility for checking out the internet and arranging to have sex with your neighbours in the first place. How was that ever going to end well?
You can’t simply play with the emotions of others.
Admittedly, you were badly let down by your sister and ex-boyfriend, but this is new beginning and a different time. Has your sister apologised to you?
Can you and she clear the air so that you can both move forward without her very bad behaviour still, clearly, playing on your mind?