I want my books to have a moral and represent every child
bigger than hair. The moral is to teach kids to be who they are. I want all my books to have a moral, to have positive stories for young children and to have every child represented.”
Rochelle, whose parents divorced when she was three, was raised by her mother Roz Wiseman, and says she had times growing up when she felt different from other children. “Everyone goes through a phase where the grass is greener, but with age you become more comfortable in yourself, from what you look like to how you approach situations. You learn to love and appreciate what you’ve got.”
She was a shy child with a stutter, and says she’s still not quite sure why she went into showbiz.
“I had a full-on stutter when I was little and went to speech therapy, and they encouraged my mum to send me to a dance or acting club to bring me out of my shell,” she recalls. “I was the little one who would hide behind my mum’s legs in all situations. Now she can’t shut me up!”
By the time she joined S Club Juniors aged 12, the stutter had gone and Rochelle was on the road to fame. But her upbringing kept her grounded, she says, and she’s learned a lot about motherhood from her own mum.
“I was brought up with my mum working every hour God sends, and it’s important to show children that you have to graft,” she reflects. “But do you know what? I’m winging it like everyone else. I’m lucky I’ve got a good support system.”
She and ex-JLS singer Marvin, 33, who live in Essex, share childcare duties, with the help of their family.
“In terms of motherhood, I just treat each day as it comes. Marvin and I sit down on a Sunday and figure out the week. I don’t have a nanny. My mum has been a paramedic for so long but has slowed down with that now. I also have a very good babysitter.”
The couple’s careers seem to have run in tandem – both were singers in very successful groups, both have gone on to be T V presenters. They’ve been together for nine years and married for seven. So, is there any competition?
“He is very competitive but I’m not. He’s one of those people who’s good at every sport they try. It’s really annoying! And I know that I’m not going to be, so I just hold back and say, ‘No, I’m fine, you go for it’,” Rochelle shares, laughing.
“It’s a funny thing. I’m his biggest cheerleader ever and he’s totally mine,” says Rochelle. “When you’re in a comfortable relationship, when he’s done well, I feel like I’ve done well myself. We get just as excited as each other.”
He has made parenting and navigating a career much easier, she adds. “I count myself lucky having Marvin. My mum did it on her own, and I think, ‘My goodness, we really lean on one another’.
“Alaia came everywhere with me when she was little. But my mum says to me, ‘ You never grow out of the guilt’, and says she still has it with me now.
“Mum guilt is such a normal thing, whether you’re working or a stay-at-home mum. My friend feels guilty because she’s not providing and feels that she’s not showing her kids that working is good. That’s the nature of being a woman. You put pressure on yourself.”
As well as co-hosting The Hit List, she’ll be co-presenting a new series of Ninja Warrior UK in
April, and hopes there are more books on the cards.