Having mental illness doesn’t mean you can’t be happy or successful
TV doctor Alex George tells LISA SALMON about tackling mental health stigma, and not letting body-shaming or weight dictate his happiness
ALTHOUGH Dr Alex George modestly suggests he’s “doing OK in life”, most people would think he’s doing considerably better than that.
As well as being a fully-qualified doctor, he rose to fame after appearing on Love Island in 2018, had a book published last year (Live Well Every Day), was appointed the first ever UK Youth Mental Health Ambassador, and regularly pops up on TV to discuss the topic.
Yet he takes medication for anxiety, and is having therapy.
“We all have ups and downs. Life happens, and it’s about looking after yourself and sometimes realising you need extra help,” says Dr Alex, 31. “I’ve been taking medication for anxiety for five or six months. I have therapy as well – everyone should have a therapist, it’s really helpful.
“So many people think that if you ‘succumb’ to having medication for mental health, you can’t be successful or happy. But happiness and mental illness are completely separate – they sometimes cross over and are interlinked – but just because you have a mental illness doesn’t mean you can’t be happy,” he adds.
“I’m trying to say to people: don’t feel that just because you’re taking medication or whatever, that you can’t be a really successful person.”
Determined to reduce the stigma surrounding mental health medication, late last year, Dr Alex – whose younger brother Llyr died by suicide in July 2020 – launched an online campaign #PostYourPill, posing for photos with his own anxiety medication.
“I’ve posted my pill,” he says. “It’s all about ending the stigma around treatment. It’s highlighting mental health and mental illness, and why it matters so much and why we need to focus on it.
“There’s so much stigma around pills, medication and therapy. There’s a great deal of shame around admitting you’re taking medication, and we don’t want people who need the medication avoiding it because of stigma.”
Dr Alex has been Youth Mental Health Ambassador for a year, and says he feels “honoured and privileged” to be involved. “I can see from visiting schools and young people how hard things are at the moment,” he says. “And I’m really excited by the work we’re doing, and the campaigns, not just about service provision but ending stigma.”
Dr Alex also believes healthy living and maintaining a good routine is interlinked with mental wellbeing. His book, Live Well Every Day, includes seven simple steps to a healthier life. Right now, he’s talking about oral health.
“It’s great to be in a routine. If I think about times when I’ve let things slip a bit, it’s probably times when I’ve struggled and things have thrown me off kilter. It’s an indicator of how people are doing,” he says.
“We talk about this with mental health as well – one of the ways to know if someone’s struggling is by looking at their functionality and their ability to do day-to-day tasks, and one of those tasks is brushing your teeth.
“Oral health can be a gateway to other aspects of your health – looking after your teeth and brushing them is about more than just the teeth themselves. Coming out of the pandemic, when people’s routines
with a photo of himself so his PPE isn’t so worrying for some patients have been changed so much, it’s important to get back to the routine of brushing teeth twice a day.
“It’s part of my daily routine – it’s about creating a routine in the morning, and starting your day knowing you’ve done everything you need to. Let’s realign and make sure we’re doing the basics right.”
Dr Alex’s routine also includes walking to an office 20 minutes from his house and going to the gym – although he doesn’t work out nearly as much as he did before Love Island.
He admits he over-exercised to get his body in tip-top shape for the show, working out for two hours a day for five months.
“I was over-exercising, restricting my diet and avoiding social situations because I was worried about eating,” he admits.
“When I look back, I think that was so unhealthy – I wasn’t actually happy, whereas now I think the balance is much, much better. If a friend says, ‘Do you want to go for lunch?,’ I
I was over-exercising, restricting my diet and avoiding social situations – that was so unhealthy