Man wakes on New Year’s Day to find girlfriend had died in the night
A BOYFRIEND has told of the devastating moment he woke up on New Year’s Day to find his partner had died in the night.
Ryan Done and Lisa Bostock had shared a couple of cans of cider and blackcurrant to bring in 2021 before going to bed at their home in Leek.
But when he got up the next day he found that Lisa, aged 40, wasn’t breathing.
An ambulance was called to the scene in Mill Street at just after 8am on January 1 but nothing could be done to save her.
An inquest into Lisa’s death heard she had suffered from fatty liver disease due to alcohol abuse.
In a statement read out at the hearing, Ryan said: “I was at home with Lisa. She was absolutely fine and we had both consumed a couple of glasses of cider.
“We fell asleep not long after midnight.”
“I began doing chest compressions. The paramedics arrived shortly after and told me Lisa had passed away.
“We occasionally used heroin, once a month. Lisa and I are alcohol dependent.”
The inquest heard that former Painsley Catholic College student Lisa had a history of substance abuse problems, including alcohol and heroin.
She also suffered from anxiety and depression and had been known to have misused her medication on previous occasions.
At the time of her death she was receiving a prescription for methadone.
In text messages found by police on her phone sent three weeks prior to her death, she confided that she was “scared of dying”.
A post-mortem examination found that Lisa had used numerous drugs, and it was likely the combination that proved fatal.
Assistant coroner Sarah Murphy said: “The deceased was found unresponsive in bed by a partner.
She was a known heroin user and alcoholic.
“I am satisfied that the overdose of the multi-drug toxicity was not a deliberate overdose.
“I would like to extend the condolences of the court to the family of Lisa for her tragic and untimely death.”
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