Leicester Mercury

I have to raise awareness of this kind of abuse so not one more single person feels so defeated and weakened they have to take their own life

- By ADRIAN TROUGHTON adrian.troughton@reachplc.com @adriantrou­ghton

steal. Councillor Simon Whelband appealed to people not to share “cute photograph­s” of their pets online.

Coun Whelband, who is a Harborough district councillor, said: “We know that criminals are very active online and look through media looking for opportunit­ies to steal pets.

“We know that people love their dogs and want to share that on social media, but any photograph­s and other informatio­n could be very useful to thieves.

“There has been a spike in dog thefts during the coronaviru­s pandemic and people must be made aware of the risks of putting posts on Facebook and the like.

“Dog owners should think twice about putting cute photograph­s of their pets online because it could lead to the animal being stolen.

“Any informatio­n that could useful to a thief should be avoided. It is a sad reflection of the way things are, but this is how it is,”

Coun Whelband is chairman of the Harborough District Community Safety Partnershi­p and it has teamed up with police following a spate of dog thefts.

They have bought two scanning devices to easily identify any microchipp­ed dogs which are found and may have

been stolen.

A GRIEVING mother has laid bare the story of the domestic abuse her daughter’s ex-boyfriend inflicted on her, which led to her taking her own life.

The physical and mental abuse Meera Dalal suffered for years ultimately led to her ending her life in her family home in Syston in 2016.

The 25-year-old NHS profession­al had sought help from doctors and a report from her GP was read out as evidence at the original inquest in Loughborou­gh, showing how fragile her mental state had become.

Meera, who worked at a private hospital in Leicester, took her own life after suffering violence and abuse from her ex-partner, an inquest into her death found.

Now, her mother Daksha has teamed up with author and domestic abuse campaigner Saurav Dutt to chronicle her grief and to reveal the ordeal her daughter went through in a book.

They hope to create a guide for other vulnerable people who may be experienci­ng abuse but don’t know where to turn.

Entitled Fall in Light: A Mother’s Story, the memoir explores the uncomforta­ble topics of sexual assault, psychologi­cal abuse and

various forms of coercion, violence and intimidati­on.

It also highlights subjects that are often considered taboo and contentiou­s in South Asian communitie­s, such as depression, mental wellness and suicide awareness.

“It may have been five years ago since I lost my darling daughter, but it feels like five minutes ago,” said Daksha.

“The loss of a child is an intense grief that you will never, ever be able to overcome.

“Sometimes I go to sleep and I don’t want to wake up.

“But I have to raise awareness especially in the South Asian com

munity - of this kind of abuse so that not one more single person feels so defeated and weakened that they have to take their own life.

“If I could help one girl, one child or somebody’s daughter, that would make me happy and give me some measure of peace.

“I know that there is help out there for the vulnerable but you have to be willing and brave enough to take it.

“I have to turn this unbearable pain into something positive to help those out there who are being abused and who want to move away from that dark place and move ahead with their lives.

 ??  ?? ‘CRIMINALS ARE ONLINE LOOKING FOR OPPORTUNIT­IES’: Coun Simon Whelband has warned against posting cute photos
‘CRIMINALS ARE ONLINE LOOKING FOR OPPORTUNIT­IES’: Coun Simon Whelband has warned against posting cute photos
 ??  ?? HEARTBREAK­ING THEFTS: Left, five dogs who were stolen from kennels on Walcote Road, South Kilworth and Purdey, the black labrador
HEARTBREAK­ING THEFTS: Left, five dogs who were stolen from kennels on Walcote Road, South Kilworth and Purdey, the black labrador
 ??  ?? TRAGEDY: The Dalal family and, right, the book mum Daksha has helped write, a guide for those experienci­ng abuse and don’t know where to turn
TRAGEDY: The Dalal family and, right, the book mum Daksha has helped write, a guide for those experienci­ng abuse and don’t know where to turn

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