Excess w*nks get no thanks

Dear Vikki,

I THINK I have an addiction to porn and it seems to be affecting my relationship.

It all started when things started to cool off a bit in the bedroom with my girlfriend after the first six month honeymoon period.

I started switching on the laptop when she fell asleep at night for a quick wank and that was it – I was still shagging her twice a week which kept things ticking over smoothly.

I reckon that it started to become a problem when I begun to think about the sexy girls in the movies more than my girlfriend.

I was waking up in the night and wanking myself hard next to my partner enjoying feeling deceitful.

This progressed to me going downstairs and spending a good three hours trawling through many hardcore porn sites, viewing all sorts of filthy acts.

The best ones had five studs with huge cocks all giving it to one sexy bird, taking it turns to slide their lengths down her through before giving it to her up the butt, then coming all over her face so she can barely see.

The type of sex in porn movies is the type I like and fulfils me completely while sex now with my girlfriend just seems lame in comparison.

This now has in turn had the adverse effect of a us ending up with a non-existent sex life. What’s the way forward with this?

Paul, Southport

Dear Paul,

I HAVE received a lot of complaints from women who are distressed that their male partners no longer want to make love to them, preferring to spend hours wanking in front of porn.

It is a good idea if couples discuss their attitude to porn early on in their relationship and agree some house rules about how much porn is viewed and of what type.

Communication is generally the key so maybe you should broach the subject with your partner and invite her to get involved.