SEX FO­RUM Your guide to the per­fect sex party

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NOOKIE ex­perts have is­sued an X-rated guide to WOMEN look­ing to at­tend their first SEX PARTY.

More and more pri­vate shag soirees are tak­ing place across the UK, with firms like Killing Kit­tens and Pure Plea­sure Par­ties of­fer­ing no-strings bonk bashes for ex­per­i­men­tal adults.

And if your mis­sus is keen, but ner­vous, about tak­ing part, top adult web­site Lelo.com is here to help!

They’ve put for­ward a five-step guide to mak­ing your orgy de­but. First up is to ‘Get Your Sexy Right’. A spokes­woman said: “Look­ing sexy will make you feel more con­fi­dent than you may ac­tu­ally be, so go ahead and find your­self an out­fit that will make you look and feel amaz­ing – no mat­ter how many lay­ers of it you may ac­tu­ally have on.

“The best pol­icy when at­tend­ing any event, sex-themed or not, is to just ask the host what the dress code is. Guar­an­teed, you won’t be the only per­son ask­ing.”

You should also ‘learn the rules’, with the ex­pert also ad­vis­ing: “Whether you’re look­ing to play with men or women, you can’t as­sume that some­one’s pres­ence at a sexy party means they are will­ing to do ev­ery­thing with any­one.

“Some peo­ple might be at­tend­ing with a part­ner with whom they are only al­lowed to do things to­gether, or might only be al­lowed to watch.”

It’s im­por­tant to ‘ set your bound­aries’ but to have ‘an open mind’.

Mean­while there’s no bet­ter fore­play, say Lelo.com, than a good con­ver­sa­tion.

They added: “Chat, min­gle, work the room – if you’re look­ing to get an­other in­vi­ta­tion, mak­ing an im­pres­sion will help.”

And most im­por­tant of all is to hide your ner­vous­ness.

The spokes­woman said: “The best peo­ple at a sexy party, or any party, are wel­com­ing and will­ing to have a chat and a laugh.

“By pre­sent­ing a re­laxed de­meanour, you’ll put other peo­ple at ease and make them want to be around you, whether it’s their first time or their 50th.”

Beau­ti­ful brunette Chantelle Ford ( left) is yet to visit a sex party, but she’s ea­ger to give it a whirl.

The 19-year-old said: “I’ve got a few friends who went to a high class sex party while they were in Ibiza, and they all said it was mind-blow­ing.

“I am in­ter­ested in giv­ing it a try, but at the same time I’m re­ally ner­vous.

“I think I’d have to take a boyfriend with me, and maybe just watch and take it all in on the first time.

“And who knows, maybe I’d have sex with a stranger on the sec­ond at­tempt!”

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