SEX FORUM Your guide to the perfect sex party

NOOKIE experts have issued an X-rated guide to WOMEN looking to attend their first SEX PARTY.

More and more private shag soirees are taking place across the UK, with firms like Killing Kittens and Pure Pleasure Parties offering no-strings bonk bashes for experimental adults.

And if your missus is keen, but nervous, about taking part, top adult website Lelo.com is here to help!

They’ve put forward a five-step guide to making your orgy debut. First up is to ‘Get Your Sexy Right’. A spokeswoman said: “Looking sexy will make you feel more confident than you may actually be, so go ahead and find yourself an outfit that will make you look and feel amazing – no matter how many layers of it you may actually have on.

“The best policy when attending any event, sex-themed or not, is to just ask the host what the dress code is. Guaranteed, you won’t be the only person asking.”

You should also ‘learn the rules’, with the expert also advising: “Whether you’re looking to play with men or women, you can’t assume that someone’s presence at a sexy party means they are willing to do everything with anyone.

“Some people might be attending with a partner with whom they are only allowed to do things together, or might only be allowed to watch.”

It’s important to ‘ set your boundaries’ but to have ‘an open mind’.

Meanwhile there’s no better foreplay, say Lelo.com, than a good conversation.

They added: “Chat, mingle, work the room – if you’re looking to get another invitation, making an impression will help.”

And most important of all is to hide your nervousness.

The spokeswoman said: “The best people at a sexy party, or any party, are welcoming and willing to have a chat and a laugh.

“By presenting a relaxed demeanour, you’ll put other people at ease and make them want to be around you, whether it’s their first time or their 50th.”

Beautiful brunette Chantelle Ford ( left) is yet to visit a sex party, but she’s eager to give it a whirl.

The 19-year-old said: “I’ve got a few friends who went to a high class sex party while they were in Ibiza, and they all said it was mind-blowing.

“I am interested in giving it a try, but at the same time I’m really nervous.

“I think I’d have to take a boyfriend with me, and maybe just watch and take it all in on the first time.

“And who knows, maybe I’d have sex with a stranger on the second attempt!”