Why does my hubby snub me for solo sex sessions?

Dear Kelly,

MY hubby of 20 years has been behaving rather strangely lately and I just don’t know what to do.

We used to have regular sex and he was always a very generous lover, spending up to 20 minutes at a time going down on me until I had an orgasm.

I would then return the favour by taking his throbbing bellend in my gob for a bit and give him a messy blowjob.

But now he’s weird. He refuses to undress at bedtime unless the light is out and he’s gone cold about having sex with me.

He also locks himself in the bathroom, so I wonder if he’s w*nking instead of shagging me all the time. Any ideas?

JS, North Yorks

Kelly says…

IT’s a midlife loss of confidence. Reassure him and he’ll be OK.