Has a threesome led to my wife having affair?

Dear Kelly,

I HAVE been with my wife for 11 years. We had a great relationship and were really trusting.

The problem started when we had a threesome a while ago with our next-door neighbour.

He’d been single since his wife left him, mainly because he’d been shagging about, as I understand it.

He’s someone quite high up at a bank and runs a top BMW, dresses smart-casual all the time and is very friendly with everyone.

We’d gone round for a few drinks one Friday evening and he started going on about how sexy my wife looked and how lucky I was.

I don’t know how the talk got round to us all having sex but I thought it might be a turn-on to see my wife getting shagged by another bloke, and she made it clear that she was up for it to spice up our sex life.

They kissed and he was between her legs like a shot, his fingers pushing in and out of her wet hole before his thick cock was twitching between her love lips.

I undressed and positioned myself at her head, letting her suck me enthusiastically while our neighbour pumped from behind.

I have to admit, we both agreed it was a great night but a one-off.

Since then I have seen her going into his house a few times and I am convinced they’re having an affair.

My wife has also been very cold to me recently and this is really starting to worry me. Have I got the wrong end of the stick.

Michael, Derby

Kelly says…

VERY likely, yes. I think the sooner you have it out the better.