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FIND LOVE INYOUR HEARTS

TEARS AS OVARIAN CANCER CAMPAIGNER PASSES AWAY

- DOUGLAS DICKIE, EDITOR

In her final message on social media, one inspiratio­nal PAGE Perthshire woman made an appeal for XXX everyone to be kinder to each other and to not waste a second of their lives. Today, in tribute to Fi Munro, the PA is urging readers to follow her lead...

On Thursday evening news broke that inspiratio­nal Fi Munro had died from cancer.

For over four years, Fi campaigned for a better understand­ing of ovarian cancer while calling on people to not waste a second of their lives.

In her final message to her thousands of social media followers, the 34-year-old from Errol said: “Remember, the answer is always just to love more. Let love in.”

As a tribute to Fi, we at the PA are urging our readers to follow her lead and be kinder to other people.

The world can seem a dark and scary place, especially in the current climate, but it would seem less so if everyone led their life with the love, enthusiasm and passion that Fi did.

Her husband Ewan called on people to carry out a random act of kindness in her name, and we would echo that plea.

Fi’s death has left Perth and Kinross a sadder place, but her legacy can live on if we use the dignity and bravery she showed as a guide to our own lives.

Tributes have been paid to inspiratio­nal Fi Munro, who has passed away.

Fi (34), who lived in Errol, won the hearts of thousands with her bravery and positive attitude during a four-and-a-half-year battle with ovarian cancer.

Last month she called on her friends and followers not to waste a second of their lives after being told she only had weeks to live.

On Thursday evening, July 16, her husband Ewan confirmed on Facebook that Fi had died “peacefully” on July 7.

A private funeral service has since taken place.

Heartbroke­n Ewan told Fi’s 11,000 followers: “She has been such a huge inspiratio­n to all those around her, filling the space with love, compassion, fun...and a little bit of swearing!

“I know she has been an incredible support to all of you out there who follow her Instagram, Facebook and blog and she leaves a huge hole in all our hearts.

“I hope that wherever she is that she gets her wish, to be reunited with friends and family lost, and to have the most amazing time with them all.

“Please don’t send flowers or cards, but instead be inspired by Fi. She asked that you all share and honour your love for her by giving a random act of kindness in her name.”

Ewan said the family would do something in her honour when the time is right, adding: “Until then, keep doing the special little things: phone a pal, leave flowers on a bench, buy someone a coffee – do whatever you can to make someone else smile.

“Much love – and light to you all, Ewan.” In the inevitable outpouring of love and sadness that followed her husband’s announceme­nt, one comment left beside a picture of Fi grinning in her wet-suit, surfboard under her arm, summed up the person thousands will miss: “Awesome powerhouse.”

Fi chose to live her cancer experience in the public eye with grit and determinat­ion.

She got a terrible introducti­on to her condition: told by doctors on day one of knowing she was ill that her cancer was terminal.

She chose to talk about it, to begin a conversati­on with Facebook friends that turned into a book which has been a help to others.

‘How Long Have I Got?’ bravely asked the questions people find the most direct, the hardest to ask.

It turned out Fi was given less than five years to make sense of living and focus on the things that mattered most to her.

It boiled down to sharing love and memories with her devoted husband and wider family, striving to highlight ovarian cancer’s often overlooked symptoms, and simply being kind.

Fi trained as a yoga teacher, specifical­ly to sympatheti­cally help others who were ill to enjoy the body connection of yoga.

Until just a few months ago, she was deepening her training in shamanic healing

She asked that you all share and honour your love for her by giving a random act of kindness in her name

and went on retreats to expand her knowledge and power in non-convention­al ways of repairing body and spirit. Again, instead of going for healing for herself, she learnt how to bring it to others.

The thread of doing things for others and sharing love comes up time and time again.

In Ewan’s message to her blog followers and supporters, he asked that they best remember her by carrying out random acts of kindness, regularly and in memory of Fi.

Mondays had been her day for a random act of kindness since her diagnosis brought a spiritual reawakenin­g to her.

People going out and doing nice things for no logical reason is a small thing that will continue to give pleasure and create gratitude for her life for many years to come.

Her philosophy was ‘who knows, a book left for someone to find on a bench, ordering an extra cup of tea for someone who has not yet come in and revealed a need, it all puts good back into our interconne­cted world’.

The reality of Fi’s worsening condition required she had many operations. The first bout of chemo robbed her of her blonde hair, but she responded by swearing and braving the no hat look until it grew back.

She took on the loss of various organs with dignity and passed off the alteration­s to her 30-something body with remarkable calm.

Her sharing of the ‘skin she was in’ went as far as stripping to her teal-coloured undies and handing flowers out to bemused pedestrian­s in central Glasgow.

Fi explained that the deep teal green bra and pants (the letters t,e,a and l are an acronym for the four main signs of cancer of the ovaries) had been specially made for her in Perthshire and she recommende­d the company as making great products that made body disfigurem­ent from cancer less of a burden.

The bra stunt was to highlight ovarian cancer and the pictures of the day show her lit up with smiles despite being half naked in a city downpour.

Fi took her ovarian cancer awareness message to Westminste­r and attended events to unify and support charities connected to all the cancers that affect women.

She breezily broadcast live to her blog friends from her train carriage seat on the way home, despite having spent an exhausting day working and networking for the cause.

Typically beginning with “Hello my Luvlies,” Fi’s warm-hearted messages came regularly from all kinds of places – a festival where she had been asked to speak about her book, at home with her pets, hospital car parks, on a beach enjoying the sea spray and many times from her beloved camper van.

Ewan and Fi got the most out of the times when she enjoyed better health and last summer they set off to see around Scotland’s rugged North coast, just the two of them in the jaunty yellow van.

She gave thanks for her healthcare through the years, thanked her husband and family and said her goodbyes.

Love will be her legacy.

An awesome powerhouse indeed.

 ??  ?? Thankful Last month, just weeks before she died, Fi made it clear she appreciate­d all the care she had been given by NHS staff
Thankful Last month, just weeks before she died, Fi made it clear she appreciate­d all the care she had been given by NHS staff
 ??  ?? Exhilarate­d Raised by the sea, Fi loved to surf
Exhilarate­d Raised by the sea, Fi loved to surf
 ??  ?? Fur baby Fi on a walk with pet dog Ozzie
Fur baby Fi on a walk with pet dog Ozzie
 ??  ?? Train travel A view of Fi as she addressed her 11,000 blog followers during her railway journey home from London
Train travel A view of Fi as she addressed her 11,000 blog followers during her railway journey home from London
 ??  ?? Street warrior On World Ovarian Cancer Day 2019, Fi handed out white roses, wearing very little bar a bra and pants
Street warrior On World Ovarian Cancer Day 2019, Fi handed out white roses, wearing very little bar a bra and pants
 ??  ?? Awareness Fi went to represent ovarian cancer at an event at Westminste­r to celebrate work of The Eve Appeal
Awareness Fi went to represent ovarian cancer at an event at Westminste­r to celebrate work of The Eve Appeal
 ??  ?? Weathering life’s challenges Fi and husband Ewan
Weathering life’s challenges Fi and husband Ewan

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