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Pick Me Up! reader Charlotte Ellis says, ‘It must be frustrating being so in love with this man and having to keep quiet about it.

But losing a spouse is awful, and though you’re full of love, as he probably is, too, try to remember that grieving is a process with no time frame.

The kids lost their mother and your partner is sensitive to their feelings. I’m sure once he and his family are ready, he’ll want you to meet them.’