Advise On Tattoo?

My granddaughter plans to get a tattoo when she turns 18 in a few weeks.

I’m concerned, as although her mum, my daughter, isn’t on board with the idea, she also won’t stop her.

I got a tattoo when I was younger, and I’ve lived to regret it. I wish somebody had told me to think about what I was doing. So I’d like to be there for my granddaughter.

I’m not trying to convince her never to get one, just to really think about her decision.

I don’t want to step on my daughter’s toes, but I feel a responsibility as a grandmother.

Should I ask my granddaughter to reconsider having a tattoo?

YES

Pick Me Up! reader Amy Stephenson says, ‘You should explain it’s important not to just get a tattoo on a whim. Don’t necessarily tell her not to get it, but advise her to think hard about what she’d like and where, as it’s a permanent body change.

It’ll also cost more money and be painful if she has to have the tattoo removed, if she regrets it later. Also, make sure she’s found good, reputable tattoo artists.’

NO

Pick Me Up! reader Heidi Clark says, ‘Just because you regretted your tattoo doesn’t mean your granddaughter will. Even if she does, it’s her mistake to make. That’s how we learn and grow as people.

She’s old enough to make this decision herself and, if her mum’s supporting her, then you should do the same.

If you do say something, don’t be surprised if she doesn’t listen to you.’