Don’t let scars define you, says young mum forced to have mastectomy op
AWOMAN who began to experience fatigue and night sweats before her cancer diagnosis is sharing an important message to others.
Cheryl Scott, 38, began to feel more tired back in 2019 and was experiencing “night sweats” but put it down to being busy.
Cheryl, who now lives in Runcorn, said with a strong history of breast cancer and ovarian cancer in her family, they have always been taught to “check ourselves”, and Cheryl found a lump in her breast while on holiday.
In December that year, she was given a diagnosis of breast cancer and surgery was scheduled for January, a single mastectomy [operation to remove a breast].
She said: “That was a little rough because during Covid you’re kind of isolated.
“We had to do a gene check and I found out I had the brca-1 gene [a gene mutation that puts you at higher risk of developing breast cancer] which meant I had to go for another mastectomy and a full hysterectomy [surgical removal of the womb] for preventative measures.
“That itself was quite difficult. I really wanted another baby and that was taken away but my self confidence had taken a knock. Being young, no-one explains what a mastectomy will bring to you mentally.
“Everyone assumes you’ve got fake boobs but it’s not the case. Mentally, it’s a rough ride.
“I couldn’t look at myself in the mirror, especially when people say at least you’re alive.
“You’re grateful you’re alive but it’s still a huge hit. I still don’t have any nipples.”
With her confidence at an all time low, Cheryl posted on Instagram asking if someone would be willing to paint her in the hopes of bringing back some self-confidence.
That’s when local artist John Charles - dubbed the ‘Scouse Van Gogh’ by his fans - got in touch.
Cheryl said: “He’s a local artist from Liverpool, a recovering addict who turned his life around.
“He shares his life stories to help others and is always supporting charities, raising money and awareness, especially for the Owen McVay foundation.”
Cheryl said herself, and ten other women, were invited for a special photoshoot, funded by John himself, with an exhibition scheduled for July 30.
She added: “I wanted to feel great and try to fall in love with my body and learn to accept it. John got in touch and he fully funded the photoshoot for all of the women, of all shapes and sizes.
“It was incredible, It was the scariest thing I’ve ever done in my life but it was so empowering. I’ve seen one of the paintings and it’s well better than I expected, John is just amazing.” Cheryl said her self-confidence has returned and she has shared an all-important message with others.
She said: “Knowledge is definitely power. Your scars don’t define you.
“If anything, it woke me up to life, now I embrace it. My self-confidence has definitely improved. I think everyone in life should get to experience something like the photoshoot at least once.
“My sister has just rung the bell for her cancer, she got diagnosed just after me. She only has one breast after an infection but there’s also a chance my daughters have the gene so they may need their breasts removed.
“Doing this, I wanted them to know that it’s not all bad and you can still love yourself.”
● You can see John Charles’ exhibit called Women on July 30 between 2-4pm at the Baltic Hotel.