Are bucket lists just an excuse to be boastful?

LIKE Marion McGilvary, I find it irritating when people drone on about their bucket list (Mail). So what if they want to jump out of a plane or abseil down a building? It’s their choice, and if they are fit and healthy to do this, what’s the big deal? Equally irritating are those who boast about how they go to the gym three times a week, do yoga and go to an art class and singing group while looking after the grandchildren in between. gRetA WARD, Hayling island, Hants. WHEN I unexpectedly found myself alone after many years of marriage, I was terrified of a future without purpose or focus. That’s until a friend told me about bucket lists. I am on a limited budget, so my list of must-dos doesn’t include exotic holidays or daring escapades. Instead, I do simple things, such as watching the sun rise in the local park. And guess what’s No 23 on my bucket list? Having a letter published in the newspaper!

S. MARSH, Reading, Berks. I ALSO resent people who whip out their diary or phone and then proceed to tell you of all their activities and arrangements for the next six months. They are missing out on day-to-day living, relaxing and taking time to see what is happening around them. JO CLAYtOn, Ruislip, Middlesex. I HAVE just retired after working with young children for 29 years and am discovering that when I am asked about my plans, people are only interested if I am volunteering, attending courses, travelling the world, bungee jumping or hiking in a remote mountain. I am just so happy to be able to spend some time at home, walking my dog and seeing friends, gardening and being there for my lovely family.

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