NOT SO FAST, CHAPS, WE KNOW WHERE IT IS!

ANY GOOD LOVER SHOULD BE ABLE TO FIND IT Rebecca Wallersteiner, literary critic

OF COURSE the G-spot exists! A good lover should be able to find it without a sexual A-to-Z. Like Tutankhamun’s tomb, mine has been found several times, whether it was on the first go or after a number of tries.

Men obsess about discovering it because of their egos — they like the challenge.

Another reason chaps fixate on locating it is because women often don’t know their own bodies.

Therefore, a man can show off his prowess by showing a lady that he — and only he — can give her pleasure the like of which she has never known.

Still, I find it’s best not to be too goalfocused. The best lovers know mind-blowing orgasms happen in the mind, when you spark one another’s imagination and hit the right erogenous spots, too.

As far as I’m concerned, candlelight, champagne and lobster (or even a humble Marks & Spencer fish pie if he’s not feeling too flush) puts me in the mood for love.

I certainly can’t think of a better way to beat the Arctic freeze we’re currently enduring than snuggling up under a duvet with a gorgeous man.

And, whether or not one believes in the G-spot, just like rare orchids or the Loch Ness monster, it can be great fun searching for it.

IT’S OUR GIFT FROM MOTHER NATURE Beverley Turner, author and LBC presenter

LIKE so much of the discourse around female sexuality, the G-spot is most misunderstood — the facts hidden away, much like these very special nerve endings themselves.

Largely written about by male researchers wearing white coats, rather than the actual owners of the elusive G-spots themselves, the mechanics of female orgasm are shrouded in mystery.

Recent research reveals that the so-called G-spot is actually a large, internal section of the clitoris — the only organ on any human body that is designed solely for our sexual pleasure.

The external part is easy to find, but we neglect the internal part at our peril.

For real ear-ringing, star-glimpsing, mind-bending satisfaction, it is absolutely paramount to get both involved.

So, don’t dismiss the G-spot as mythical. Just view it as part of a whole box of tricks that Mother Nature has gifted to women.