South Wales Echo

‘I put her to bed as normal found her in the morning

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THE parents of a 15-month-old girl who tragically lost her life to cot death have warned that older babies can still be at risk of the condition.

Emad and Jo Ewada, from Brackla, Bridgend, said their daughter Sophia was “fit and healthy” when they put her to bed.

But it was the last time they would ever say “goodnight” to her.

“I was an experience­d parent. I put her to bed as normal but when I found her in the morning she had died – it was completely unexpected,” said Jo.

“Everyone thinks that the risk of cot death lessens as they get older – you get the impression that once your child passes six months it’s plain sailing – but people need to know the risks are there until a child is five.

“I don’t think the condition should be called sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS).

“It would be more accurate to call it sudden death syndrome in children because it’s not just infants who are at risk.”

Jo and Emad now want to raise awareness of cot death and SIDS and the advice offered by health visitors.

To reduce their risk a baby should always be put on their back to sleep, kept away from cigarette smoke during pregnancy and never placed on a sofa or in an armchair.

“I feel so strongly about this. Important new research into cot death is going on but I still don’t have any answers,” added Jo, who stuck to the guidelines.

“If by sharing our story it just helps save one child then it will have been worth it.”

Sophia was the youngest of Jo and Emad’s children and had an older brother called Yusef, now nine, and sisters Tamara, seven, and Alia, five.

Immediatel­y after her death things got more complicate­d for the family when Emad lost his job and Jo had to give up college where she was studying health and social care.

Flying Start health visitor Sam Knight, who began supporting the family after the tragedy, said: “Jo and Emad’s lives changed in a second and their stable family life was no more.

“Not only did it have an unimaginab­le impact on their family and emotions but they were also hit financiall­y.

“We identified the needs of the family that had to be met and child and family support worker Rachel Pearce was able to give advice and practical solutions.

“Since then, as well as visiting regularly, I have been able to arrange counsellin­g for Jo and Emad and for their children to have play therapy.”

Dad Emad, originally from Egypt, said the family needed emotional support in the immediate aftermath of Sophia’s death.

He said: “The time between Sophia’s death and her funeral was difficult for me because I come from a different culture where burial takes place straight away.

“That delay was killing me. But Sam is always here for me to talk to if I need to.”

But from the tragedy came hope when

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