How the virus has changed funerals
AFUNERAL is an emotional and difficult time for anyone, but the coronavirus pandemic has left many families unable to give their loved ones the sendoff they wanted.
This only adds to people’s heartbreak at a time of great loss and sadness.
A Southport funeral director has spoken about the ‘utter devastation’ the pandemic continues to cause families.
Nigel Gilliat has worked for Co-op Funeralcare for the last 25 years. He is also a qualified embalmer. For him, and many other funeral directors, the outbreak has changed how he is able to work.
Nigel said: “Covid and the restrictions enforced have had a significant impact on families and us as funeral professionals.
“I see first-hand day-today the utter devastation that this virus is causing families.
“It is heartbreaking. Many people are not allowed to be by their loved one’s side when they die.” Families are asked to make funeral arrangements over the phone where possible.
Some people prefer to visit the funeral home and meet in person. Nigel says this absolutely can still happen by making a prearranged appointment.
He said: “Two people from the same household or support bubble can visit our funeral homes and chapels of rest.”
To comply with the latest advice from the government, face coverings must be worn.
“The restrictions introduced have had a significant impact on our colleagues as key workers.
“In this profession, you naturally want to offer families exactly what they want for a funeral. A maximum of 30 family members and friends can currently attend a funeral. It is terribly sad that families are having to decide who to invite.
“Webcasting allows more people to be involved in services and is something that we are advising. It really helps people feel part of their loved one’s funeral if they can’t physically be there.
“We encourage families and friends to consider future memorial events for their loved ones once lockdown eases.
“For anyone going through this, my advice would be to talk to your funeral director. They are there to help guide and advise you through this process.
“My colleagues and I are dedicated to helping families create meaningful and unique tributes for their loved ones.
“It is still possible to arrange beautiful and personal send-offs to say your last goodbye to those you love and miss so much.
“The creativity of our families has been astounding. They continue to amaze us with their imaginative and personalised tributes for their next of kin.
“People are thinking about funeral choices in a very different way.
“Families continue to embrace the parts of the funeral that they can control in order to say their best possible goodbyes and honour their loved ones.”