Ask Anne Virgin bride My bi best mate betrays his girl fears he’ll cheat with ex-lovers

My best friend is bisexual but hasn’t told his girlfriend he is also seeing men. He says he’s responsible when it comes to sexual health and safe sex but I know she’d be really upset if she found out. So should I tell her? I got married only six months ago, and we are still very happy. But I’ve started to worry so much about my husband’s past. He has had sex with so many women I wonder if he is always comparing me to them. I wanted to wait until I was married. Now I think I am so inexperienced, he must find our love life boring and he may go back to his old girlfriends. He still keeps in touch with them on Facebook. Should I spy on him to see if I am losing him?